It's another late night, and I have just finished putting all the kids to bed. Does anyone else do this count-down? : "1 down, 3 to go! 2 down, 2 to go! 4 down, ALL DONE!!!" I sure do! Whew! : ) And if at no other point in the day do I feel like I've accomplished something, when all the kids are sleeping and the house is quiet, it's then that I feel like SuperWoman : )
Andrew's work schedule has been a grueling adjustment for us. Mostly it's just a big adjustment of how to spend time together, of how to maximize that time. It is normal for 2-4 days out of the week for him to leave in the morning and I'll see him long after the kids are in bed. So when he is home, it feels like party time! : )
I want to be very cautious here, that this doesn't come out like a drawn out complaint, because I don't really think that way. Yes, sometimes the days get really long with his schedule being as it is, but I am so pleased that God has been faithful to us. This job that Andrew has now- it is pretty much everything that he has been wanting. He wants a work enviroment where he is stretched, where he is invested in, where he is surrounded by people with whom he shares similar interests and a place that has a vision that he can run with. And this is it. Not only did he end up doing what he really wanted to do, but God provided this pretty much the instant he was informed of his employment downsizing. It was just remarkable.
We knew that taking this job would be a stretch for us. For him AND for me. And it certainly has been. There have been moments, today even, in the midst of the chaos, neediness, and noise that comes with 4 children at home, where I just think to myself, "Put a fork in me! I am DONE!" And yet I've pulled through somehow (after an earnest prayer and some hidden tears).
I'm not sure yet of what God wants to accomplish in us moving to Virginia, but I know that He wants us here. So regardless of the stretch, I'm all in.
Anyway, back to maximizing family time- its very much a work in progress! On the times that Andrew does have with us, I wrestle with the best way to spend it. See, there are several options. Do I :(a) Put aside all the housework and play with Andrew and the kids - which means that I will have to do it all later, after the kids are in bed, which would cut into MY time with Andrew; (b) Get the housework done while Andrew and the kids are enjoying each other, that way Andrew and I could have some time together later - which means that the kids won't have a "full" experience of family time; or (c) Have Andrew help me with some of the housework that way we can get family time AND alone time in - but which means that on his time off he is still working around the house. Hmmmmm. Am I missing a better option? Ideally, I could get everything done while he works, that way we can play when we are all together.... but...... I have not achieved that level of amazing yet!!!
Marcail and Me being silly : )
That is probably my biggest struggle now. And out of all the major issues in the world, I know it is very, very minor. And I am very, very blessed. Speaking of blessed, Andrew just walked in the door : ) So I'm gonna wrap this up and call it a night! Leave your thoughts, please! I have this app on the blog that lets me see that I have WAY more visitors than I have comments ; )